Does someone you care about have trouble managing their emotions?
We offer information and support for loved ones of those with personality disorders
Our Mission
Through NEPDA program/events, we offer education and support to loved ones of people with personality disorders, especially Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). Through expert-led presentations and other events, we provide a space, free of stigma, for understanding, companionship, and hope. NEPDA supports people in relationship with those on the recovery journey.
NEPDA partners with other groups and organizations, including McLean Hospital in Belmont, Massachusetts. Consisting entirely of volunteers, NEPDA is a 501(c)(3) entity which operates through tax-deductible contributions and is viable only through the generosity of its supporters.
NEPDA Home Meetings
Where Understanding and Support Happen!
Monday, January 26, 2026
7 - 8:30 PM Eastern Time
“Poor Sense of Self in People with BPD and implications for Relationships”
For Families of Loved Ones With a Personality Disorder
With Dr. Blaise Aguirre
Dr. Blaise Aguirre, child and adolescent psychiatrist, is nationally and internationally recognized for his extensive work in the treatment of mood and personality disorders in adolescents. He directs a program at McLean Hospital in Belmont, Massachusetts, focusing on self-endangering behaviors and the symptoms of borderline personality disorder (BPD). Drawing from his extensive experience and ideas from his book, I Hate Myself: Overcome Self-Loathing and Realize Why You’re Wrong About You, Dr. Aguirre will present and lead a discussion on identity and how it affects relationships. There will be plenty of time for questions during the meeting. Meetings are live and not recorded.**
NEPDA’s annual meeting, with election of the Board of Directors, will be held after the presentation. Please plan to stay and share your ideas for future meetings.
NEPDA Home Meetings are limited to 50 participants so all questions are usually answered. By keeping numbers low, we hope to foster a sense of community and belonging. You can, of course, also remain anonymous by keeping your video screen off during meetings. Our meetings are not recorded.
**DISCLAIMER: Information provided during or in connection with NEPDA's meetings and programs is for informational purposes only, is not to be utilized or relied upon for the diagnosis or treatment of any mental health or other condition and should not be a substitute for a diagnosis and/or treatment by a medical or other professional. Such information is not intended to constitute patient education or treatment and does not create any patient-physician relationship. Views expressed during NEPDA's meetings and programs are not endorsed by NEPDA, which is a volunteer organization that does not offer clinical mental health services or professional referrals
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These virtual meetings, which take place on the fourth Monday of the month, formerly occurred in participants’ living rooms, thus the name, “Home Meetings”. The name stuck because we hope family and friends of those with personality disorders find a welcoming “home” with us at NEPDA. The format includes a presentation by a speaker and time for questions and sharing.
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NEPDA is run by volunteers, but nevertheless, it costs to bring you the very best speakers. Your donations are our primary source of income. Please give a minimum of $12 for each meeting when you sign up - more if you can, less if you can’t. CLICK HERE to donate or click the “Donate” button below. Thank you.
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Please give a minimum of $12 for each meeting when you sign up - more if you can, less if you can’t. Click the “Donate” button below. Thank you.
To donate by check please make check payable to NEPDA and mail to
Judy Cody, NEPDA Treasurer, 5 Petrel Street, West Roxbury, MA 02132